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One of the most common (and emotional) questions I hear from the people I work with is: “Should I stay in my home, or is it time to move?”
There’s no one-size-fits-all answer. For some, aging in place — with a few smart upgrades and the right support — is the perfect choice. For others, downsizing or moving to a residence brings relief, freedom, and peace of mind.

The key is this: It’s not just about your house. It’s about your lifestyle, safety, finances, and the kind of day-to-day life you want moving forward. Let’s walk through a few important things to consider.

What Aging in Place Might Look Like
Staying in your home as you age can be comforting — you know your neighbours, your routines, and every creaky floorboard. But as needs change, your home may need to change too.

Ask yourself:

• • Is the home accessible? (Think stairs, doorways, bathroom layout)
  • Are there support services available nearby?
  • Can I safely manage the upkeep?
  • Do I have a plan in place if my health or mobility changes?

Some people choose to renovate for safety, adding grab bars, a main floor bedroom, or a walk-in shower. Others bring in home care support, cleaning services, or meal delivery.

Aging in place can work well when the right structure is in place, both in the home and around you.

What Downsizing or Moving Might Offer
If maintaining your home is becoming a source of stress — physically, emotionally, or financially — it may be time to look at options that better support your lifestyle.

Moving doesn’t mean “giving up.” It can mean:

• • Less house to manage
  • More time for family, hobbies, or travel
  • Easier access to care and services
  • A chance to be around people in a similar stage of life

Whether you’re looking at a condo, a senior-friendly apartment, or a retirement residence, the right move can bring peace of mind for you and your loved ones.

The Financial Side
Sometimes, the decision comes down to the numbers.

• • What would it cost to stay and renovate or bring in support?
  • What could you free up financially by selling and moving to a smaller space?
  • Could selling your home open up more choices or reduce monthly costs?

As a REALTOR® and Seniors Real Estate Specialist (SRES®), I help clients and their families walk through these numbers clearly, without pressure. It’s not just about selling — it’s about supporting the life you want.

When You’re Feeling Stuck
This decision can feel heavy and emotional. It’s normal to feel uncertain. What’s most important is that you feel heard, informed, and in control.

If you’re on the fence, here’s what I recommend:

• • Start the conversation early — before there’s a crisis
  • Explore both options with curiosity, not pressure
  • Tour residences or view homes that fit your stage of life — even if you’re not ready yet
  • Talk to someone who understands both real estate and aging

You Deserve to Feel Safe, Comfortable, and Supported
Whether you stay in your home with some modifications or decide it’s time for a new chapter, your decision deserves care, time, and support.

I’m here to help you weigh your options honestly, respectfully, and with zero pressure. We’ll talk about your goals, your home, and what feels right for your future — one thoughtful step at a time. When you’re ready to talk, I’m just a phone call away.